Regret

Allow me asking a serious questions: "If you die today, what left behind you? Dreams, abilities, gift, family, friends?"

Have we ever think about this? I had never think this issues before, I always think that I am still young, still capability, still have a lot of time to do anythings. I do believe that everyone will think the same things. However, let's us ask ourselves, if one day, we being diagnose that you have a disease, a cancer, that can cause you death. Unfortunately, you have left few more years, fewer perhaps. What will run in your mind now? Thinking of I speaking nonsense? No, accident and danger will always come silently and unexpectedly. You think you might have start your journey, but maybe it was your last things can do in life.

Previously, I found an interesting article in web that story background is by a millionaire. He said that he had bring his family one time before to let them see how the cremation service is running. Everyone was shock and scold him that had give his children bad memory in childhood. However, the millionaire had say something and make the crowd keep in silent. He said:" I bring them to see the cremation service is to let them know what is death. When the button is press, everyone is the same. No matter who you are and how rich you are. Once you had dead and send to the cremation service, everything left behind is just the bone ash. This reason behind all this is I want to let my children understanding it."

Maybe that millionaire is too aggressive and using inappropriate method to teach his son, however, it bring up a very good issue. Once we die, who we are? We are just a bone ash or corpse that lying under the grave yard and watching our family, friends or even no one that pass by our grave.

When this coming, what is the most things that you have regret in your entire life? We might have things that we regret and never do, or we do not dare to do. Tell the one we love, appreciate the time with our family, say sorry to others, I am sure that there must be a lot of things that we wish to do if we really been declare that our life is almost come to the end.

How long we are not hugging our parents and say I love you? How long we forget to love ourselves? How long we forget what dream we are chasing for?

We not in grave yard yet ! Stop regret everything before too late! We should appreciate every moment ! To not live in other's life ! To do things that we like to do! Everyday is a new day and everyday is a new moment ! So what is the most regret things in your life?

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