I believe that everyone have things that they expected in their life. No matter who. Baby, they expect have love and care so do the children. They expect have people give presents, foods, and toys to them especially during their birthday and Christmas. It's pretty simply needs isn't?
Let's go deeper. When we grow up, the desire also grow and so do the needs. We expect high performance, high exam result, high quality of school, have a lot of good friends, they willing to help us and follow what we hope so, we expect achieve in others do not achieve. So, is this a good phenomenon? I would like to say both good and bad. Because people desire, we tend to achieve, we tend to discover more. Without discover, what would our world to be? As advance as now? However, compare to last time, people nowadays tend to be expected more and desire more which lead to the bad outcome.
When open newspaper, how many student are commit suicide due to the bad performance? How many employees and employers are getting more tension everyday and had psychology problem and depress everyday? How many people are can't accept the reality and "escape" from life? We also heard people say that so disappointing on others, disappointing in something. But, what to say we change our mindset?
Try to think like this: Every outcome is a gift from God. If the result is bad, just let it be, perhaps this is the challenging that you must overcome in order to get stronger. We are not born to know everything isn't? We accumulate our knowledge and experience so that wouldn't repeat it in the future. There is nothings to be depress about. We expect too much things in our life. So why don't we give it a break? We no need to live so tension. If have problem, we solve it, if we not able to solve it, we try to get help from other, as we have try out best, there is nothing we can regret about. The most sadness case is that the student are easily commit suicide because of poor result. Your life is not that cheap and how about your parents? They had spend their whole life in raise you up and this is the things you pay back for them? We fail today do not mean that we fail everyday. Try you best, expect nothing and you will not be dissapointed.
