What is belong to you?

What is the things you have and belong to you in life?

Try to think back what exactly is belong to us? The cloth we had in the wardrobe? The money inside our bank? The business that we had create? No, neither one are belong to us. Since we are born, we are bring nothing along with us and we are just naked. Have you ever see a baby that is bringing along the jewelry or so on when they are born? I believe if there is such things, the population of earth must be increase rapidly since everyone is rushing to have a baby. Yes, everything is start give by our parents and relatives. 

When we are grow, we start to fight, we learn to fight. We stand alone, we work together. We laugh, we feel sadness, we feel angry, we feel happiness, we feel everything. We fight to get good result in childhood, learn as many things we can. We compare with other, we defeat other, we get good result and enter good university, we getting the course we want, we spent whole night doing assignment, we study, we exam, we achieve and we graduate. It not yet done. We keep on. We get the certificate, we went to work, we get married, we have our own child, we get good performance in work, we get promotion, we get higher paid, we get a better life, better house, or no, you not getting promotion but a lot of loan need to settle, housing loan, car loan, education loan, living life expanses. The life remain on you is work work work work and work. To settle down all the loan, to get a better life for your family. Stress is coming everyday. Finally, you have settle down all, and you getting older. You body start to have various type of problem. You used up all the money that you earn while young and cure yourself. The worst situation? You don't have money and cure yourself because you have spend all of it for you family. So, you are sick heavily, and sorry to say that, you were done. The coffin is waiting for you and the grim reaper is waiting to reap your soul if too many bad things you have done or no, you are going to heaven and welcoming by God. See? Your whole life can be just in one paragraph. So, what left behind? What still remain? What you can bring to heaven? You saw your family and friends cried, but after 3 years, do still remember you? Do still they cry for you?

So, this is life. Think positive. Life just once and do not have repeat. So, LIVE YOUR LIFE.

Your time is limit

How many time do you left? This question I am believe that just a few of people will realize until they are truly found that they are lack of time especially youngster. 

We can always see that youngster nowadays waste a lot of time in surfing Facebook, gaming especially mobile apps. I am not to deny the benefit that technology bring to us but I wish to emphasis that youngster nowadays really lack of concern on the time issues. Some time we even can heard some of them say: "I do not know what to do now, I have nothing to do. I so boring." But, they do not know that they are actually wasting their time. God is fair. He give everyone 24 hours a day, but why some can success in life while other cannot? Why some people say that they so free, but some say that they do not have enough time to use? 

Previously, I found a very interesting video about we draw our life on a A4 paper. The video I had show at below and can have a look. After seeing this, it give me a great impact on my perspective on time. For example, we now are 30, we still have time to fight on our career. However, if your whole life just have 60, you have spent up half of your life. How about your parents? How many time they left? Better yet, think about your primary school, secondary school, isn't that time flies? How old are you now? So how about our parent?  I am believe that it is very hard to make a balance between family and career, however, I still hope that everyone of us at least can spend some time to go home and pay a visit to our parents. Perhaps, they ain't got much time left. Sick or an accident can bring them away anytime and anywhere. 

Regret

Allow me asking a serious questions: "If you die today, what left behind you? Dreams, abilities, gift, family, friends?"

Have we ever think about this? I had never think this issues before, I always think that I am still young, still capability, still have a lot of time to do anythings. I do believe that everyone will think the same things. However, let's us ask ourselves, if one day, we being diagnose that you have a disease, a cancer, that can cause you death. Unfortunately, you have left few more years, fewer perhaps. What will run in your mind now? Thinking of I speaking nonsense? No, accident and danger will always come silently and unexpectedly. You think you might have start your journey, but maybe it was your last things can do in life.

Previously, I found an interesting article in web that story background is by a millionaire. He said that he had bring his family one time before to let them see how the cremation service is running. Everyone was shock and scold him that had give his children bad memory in childhood. However, the millionaire had say something and make the crowd keep in silent. He said:" I bring them to see the cremation service is to let them know what is death. When the button is press, everyone is the same. No matter who you are and how rich you are. Once you had dead and send to the cremation service, everything left behind is just the bone ash. This reason behind all this is I want to let my children understanding it."

Maybe that millionaire is too aggressive and using inappropriate method to teach his son, however, it bring up a very good issue. Once we die, who we are? We are just a bone ash or corpse that lying under the grave yard and watching our family, friends or even no one that pass by our grave.

When this coming, what is the most things that you have regret in your entire life? We might have things that we regret and never do, or we do not dare to do. Tell the one we love, appreciate the time with our family, say sorry to others, I am sure that there must be a lot of things that we wish to do if we really been declare that our life is almost come to the end.

How long we are not hugging our parents and say I love you? How long we forget to love ourselves? How long we forget what dream we are chasing for?

We not in grave yard yet ! Stop regret everything before too late! We should appreciate every moment ! To not live in other's life ! To do things that we like to do! Everyday is a new day and everyday is a new moment ! So what is the most regret things in your life?

The 25 Biggest Regrets In Life. What Are Yours?


 

Life

Play together with the music sound will be nicer.

Previously, I was surfing on YouTube and found a very interesting and motivating video. I believe it can benefit and inspire anyone especially those who in stress and trouble. 

"Your time is limited so don’t waste it living someone else’s life." This is the phrase that I like most in the video. When speak about time is limited, I wondering how many people is actually can realize on it. I start to thinking back myself when the video talk about stop living with the results of other people's thinking. I think it was true thought. Friend, parents, relative and all people around us. That is what they make us but not based on our willingness especially friends. 

Best friend, this word will jump into my mind when talk about wasting time. How many times we are wasting on our so called "best friend"? Are we living on the script that they set on us? Or actually we are willing to let them set on us? For sure not. However, sometimes, we are forced to. We need to obey and follow what they ask to. If one day we fail to do so, they will definitely say disappoint on us and shame on us. But, let us think back, is this called "best friend" or we are slave?

In Chinese, there is a phrase that always like to told by old people. No matter how many good things you have done, but don't ever let them see you do a bad things once, sooner, they will forget all the goodness you done to them. Obviously, this is definitely correct. How many argument and quarrel is started by small matter and we forget other's goodness to us? The so called "best friend", if one day we are not following their script, we are not their "best friend" anymore.

This post suppose with the title of "Friendship" instead of "Life" but why I choose "Life" rather than "Friendship"? 

Perhaps, this is so called "Life". We will never stop. We keep going and keep moving. I still remember that someone had said that life is like we ride on a train. Along the journey, there are people leave the train and people that get up to the train and so do friends, nothing is static, it is keep moving. In different stage we will have different friends with us. Now think back, how long we not talk to our primary school's best friends? Closer a bit, how long we not talk to our secondary school's best friends? More closer a bit, how long we not talk to our University's best friends? It's a questions to ask. When think back, when around our "best friends", are we still need to follow their script? Or in other way round, tolerate. So, I think it was good fortune enough to have at least one best friend in our life that will keep pushing us, keep fighting together with us, cheer you up when you are in bad mood, celebrate when we are happy, share our deepest secret and tolerate each other. Luckily, I had found it. 

21 SIGNS SHE'S YOUR BEST FRIEND FOR LIFE