Previously, I was surfing on YouTube and found a very interesting and motivating video. I believe it can benefit and inspire anyone especially those who in stress and trouble.
"Your time is limited so don’t waste it living someone else’s life." This is the phrase that I like most in the video. When speak about time is limited, I wondering how many people is actually can realize on it. I start to thinking back myself when the video talk about stop living with the results of other people's thinking. I think it was true thought. Friend, parents, relative and all people around us. That is what they make us but not based on our willingness especially friends.
Best friend, this word will jump into my mind when talk about wasting time. How many times we are wasting on our so called "best friend"? Are we living on the script that they set on us? Or actually we are willing to let them set on us? For sure not. However, sometimes, we are forced to. We need to obey and follow what they ask to. If one day we fail to do so, they will definitely say disappoint on us and shame on us. But, let us think back, is this called "best friend" or we are slave?
In Chinese, there is a phrase that always like to told by old people. No matter how many good things you have done, but don't ever let them see you do a bad things once, sooner, they will forget all the goodness you done to them. Obviously, this is definitely correct. How many argument and quarrel is started by small matter and we forget other's goodness to us? The so called "best friend", if one day we are not following their script, we are not their "best friend" anymore.
This post suppose with the title of "Friendship" instead of "Life" but why I choose "Life" rather than "Friendship"?
Perhaps, this is so called "Life". We will never stop. We keep going and keep moving. I still remember that someone had said that life is like we ride on a train. Along the journey, there are people leave the train and people that get up to the train and so do friends, nothing is static, it is keep moving. In different stage we will have different friends with us. Now think back, how long we not talk to our primary school's best friends? Closer a bit, how long we not talk to our secondary school's best friends? More closer a bit, how long we not talk to our University's best friends? It's a questions to ask. When think back, when around our "best friends", are we still need to follow their script? Or in other way round, tolerate. So, I think it was good fortune enough to have at least one best friend in our life that will keep pushing us, keep fighting together with us, cheer you up when you are in bad mood, celebrate when we are happy, share our deepest secret and tolerate each other. Luckily, I had found it.
